Love by Flavour
About the flavours
Dating psychology you can actually taste
We translate attachment theory and Big Five personality research into 16 memorable archetypes — so you can spot your loops, choose better, and break what hurts.
From the creator
Built with love by Lee — a student of psychology and human behaviour. Love by Flavour is not just a quiz. It is a mirror for your romantic operating system.
Most of us repeat dating patterns we cannot name. Flavour metaphors make the invisible visible — without clinical shame — so you can make conscious choices about love.
1. Map your traits
Quiz answers lean on Big Five + attachment signals — openness, anxiety, chase vs. calm.
2. Find your flavour
We match you to the nearest archetype of 16, with a core need and growth edge.
3. Break the loop
Pattern Breaker challenges turn insight into drills — no-chase, outside-type dates, repair scripts.
The science
- Big Five — openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, neuroticism
- Attachment theory — how we bond, pursue, and protect
- Behavioural loops — who you chase and why it ends
- Compatibility research — reciprocity and repair beat fireworks alone
Why metaphors work
- Intuitive — everyone understands taste
- Non-judgmental — no flavour is “better”
- Memorable — easier than clinical jargon
- Shareable — fun to talk about with friends
Meet the 16 flavours
Tap a flavour to see its psychology — core need, growth edge, and flags.
🍓 Strawberry
Hopeless Romantic
You believe in fairy-tale love and wear your heart openly. Grand gestures and deep emotional bonds light you up.
Core need
To feel chosen and emotionally mirrored
Growth edge
Love yourself at the same volume you love others
Green flags
- • consistent affection
- • future talk
- • emotional honesty
Red flags
- • emotional unavailability
- • hot-cold inconsistency
- • dismissiveness
Attachment map
Anxious-leaning
Secure
Fearful-avoidant
Avoidant-leaning
Ready to discover your flavour?
Create an account, get your flavour in setup, then put the insight to work in Pattern Breaker.